Good friends of Dave Whelan say it was not just his family and them but the whole town that was dealt a huge loss this morning when Dave died after a battle with cancer.
Rick Bessom knew Dave since kindergarten. They went to Clarke School, played Pop Warner football and for Big Blue, graduating Swampscott High in 1975.
Later, following college, they shared an apartment in town and, after each of them got married, they remained close.
"I lost a good friend," Rick said. "Dave was top notch. He loved his family. He loved the town. He was committed to bettering education for generations to come — and incredibly unselfish, having donated so much of his time."
Swampscott Recreation Director Danielle Strauss said Dave was a dedicated friend who loved his family more than anything. Dave leaves behind his wife, Jean, and two children, Trevor and Hilary, both of whom are attending college.
The Whelans and Strauss families would camp at Lost River, Meredith and other New Hampshire locations, swimming, canoeing, hiking and otherwise roughing it.
Danielle said Dave later confessed that he wasn't one for camping but went along with it, taking one for the team, the family, because they enjoyed it.
The director recounted Dave's considerable service for the larger team, the town, over the years.
He was town treasurer, a School Committee member, a member of the Republican Town Committee, on the board at Marian Court College, on the Recreation Commission, Swampscott Youth Soccer Association, the Abbott Park Playground Committee, the Phillips Park Study Committee and a Town Meeting member.
Dave spearheaded the effort to see Swampscott schools funded at the amount promised by state officials but
He wrote editorials, met with state officials and politicians, attended hearings, organized community groups and supported a legal challenge to the funding mechanism.
From Dave, many Swampscott people took their cue, advocating for change after witnessing , energy and commitment to the problem.
Good friend Kelly Cunningham said Dave had keen interests in sports, especially the Red Sox, and in politics.
He was a man of integrity who would not be cowed.
He was passionate about the town and worked on its behalf.
"He was one of the best people I have ever known in my life," he said. "It's such a loss for the town."
Dave was no stranger to loss, said Rick Bessom. Dave lost his father as a young child and his mother after graduating high school.
He went on to graduate from Merrimack College and became an accountant, a family man and involved himself in the life of the town.
Some of Rick's memories of Dave hearken back to the football field. As a child he was pudgy, a pulling guard on the Pop Warner team, but later slimmed down and became a safety on the high school team.
They played on opposite sides of the ball on the high school team, Rick at running back and Dave at safety.
Rick said he could never get by Dave. He was a dogged defender and always dragged him down.
The town will miss Dave's presence, his involvement, his diligence and his persistence.
Patch will post visiting hours and funeral information as it becomes available.
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